Thursday, November 10, 2011

Are people really as busy as they say

Sometimes I admit some of my theories may tick some people off.  The truth is though I like to write about things I observe.  There are people in this world who I do believe are very busy and have little time for interaction unless it is at there job.  Celebrities and models are to me the most busiest people.  I can understand that.  There are some people out there though who pretend there busy as an excuse usually to avoid talking to someone.  How do I know this because I've done it before but not lately.  Are there times I do believe that some people are busy sure I do.    Does it sound like Im complaining maybe but the truth is I like to write about things I observe and this is one of them.  I think theres better things to say like I don't feel like hanging out right now. 

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Family Drama

Does anyone here experience family drama? I know I do. I wish I didn't.   I have tried helping this family member so much that I can't do it no more. Who is this family member I'm talking about? I hate the fact that its my mother.    Does anyone else on here have a mom who stirs up drama in the family?    I love to blog about things like this because it gives me a great place to vent.   I know that we are to try and respect our mothers. Realize too though that respect is a two way street not a one way.  What my mother does is stirs up the drama and then says she doesn't do it. She sits there and says she doesn't remember. She remembers and just says that because she got caught.   Generally when a person lies and is about to get caught its convient for them to say I don't remember.   What do you do when a family member stirs up drama?  I say you cut them out of your life until they can grow up and starting acting like an adult.    Please understand Im not trying to be negative here I'm just talking about an issue that many people have or have had.    Send me your comments, stories or questions.

Thursday, July 14, 2011

When You Hurt someone you care about you should apologize

Sometimes when you make friends with someone you care about I feel that you should apoligize no matter how bad it makes you look.  I hope the person that Im wanting to apoligize to reads this.  Im very sorry that I didn't respect your space like you asked.  I apoligize for misunderstanding and being insensitive to what you were feeling.  I'm sorry for the way I acted and how I acted put you through hell.  I just want you to know how I feel.  I just want you to know that I'm concerned for you and no pressure when I say this but if you want or need to talk about anything.  I'm here and I won't judge you.  I just want you to know that when I ask how's your day or wish you to have a great day its only because I care about how your doing.   I just want my friend to know that I'm sorry.  I just want her to know that I want to do something to make it up to her.  Why because that is the kind of guy that I am.  I just want her to know that she is the greatest friend I've ever made.   I'm sorry I let my hurt overtake her feelings.  I also want her to know that she is such a great friend because of who she is.  She is the most classest friend I've ever hung out with.  I just want her to know and want her to read that I will  try my best to give her her space.  But I don't want to lie to her and I don't want her feeling guilty when I say this but I will miss her.  So to the friend that I'm apoligizing too I hope you read this.  I hope I didn't cross a line by writing this but I just wanted to say I'm sorry.  When you are done wanting to be alone I want to restore our friendship again.