Are people really as busy as they say

Sometimes I admit some of my theories may tick some people off.  The truth is though I like to write about things I observe.  There are people in this world who I do believe are very busy and have little time for interaction unless it is at there job.  Celebrities and models are to me the most busiest people.  I can understand that.  There are some people out there though who pretend there busy as an excuse usually to avoid talking to someone.  How do I know this because I've done it before but not lately.  Are there times I do believe that some people are busy sure I do.    Does it sound like Im complaining maybe but the truth is I like to write about things I observe and this is one of them.  I think theres better things to say like I don't feel like hanging out right now. 

Family Drama

Does anyone here experience family drama? I know I do. I wish I didn't.   I have tried helping this family member so much that I can't do it no more. Who is this family member I'm talking about? I hate the fact that its my mother.    Does anyone else on here have a mom who stirs up drama in the family?    I love to blog about things like this because it gives me a great place to vent.   I know that we are to try and respect our mothers. Realize too though that respect is a two way street not a one way.  What my mother does is stirs up the drama and then says she doesn't do it. She sits there and says she doesn't remember. She remembers and just says that because she got caught.   Generally when a person lies and is about to get caught its convient for them to say I don't remember.   What do you do when a family member stirs up drama?  I say you cut them out of your life until they can grow up and starting acting like an adult.    Please understand Im not trying to be negative here I'm just talking about an issue that many people have or have had.    Send me your comments, stories or questions.

When You Hurt someone you care about you should apologize

Sometimes when you make friends with someone you care about I feel that you should apoligize no matter how bad it makes you look.  I hope the person that Im wanting to apoligize to reads this.  Im very sorry that I didn't respect your space like you asked.  I apoligize for misunderstanding and being insensitive to what you were feeling.  I'm sorry for the way I acted and how I acted put you through hell.  I just want you to know how I feel.  I just want you to know that I'm concerned for you and no pressure when I say this but if you want or need to talk about anything.  I'm here and I won't judge you.  I just want you to know that when I ask how's your day or wish you to have a great day its only because I care about how your doing.   I just want my friend to know that I'm sorry.  I just want her to know that I want to do something to make it up to her.  Why because that is the kind of guy that I am.  I just want her to know that she is the greatest friend I've ever made.   I'm sorry I let my hurt overtake her feelings.  I also want her to know that she is such a great friend because of who she is.  She is the most classest friend I've ever hung out with.  I just want her to know and want her to read that I will  try my best to give her her space.  But I don't want to lie to her and I don't want her feeling guilty when I say this but I will miss her.  So to the friend that I'm apoligizing too I hope you read this.  I hope I didn't cross a line by writing this but I just wanted to say I'm sorry.  When you are done wanting to be alone I want to restore our friendship again. 

Why some people choose to stay alone

Some people in life they go and get married.  Some people go and get into relationships and there are others that choose to stay alone.  Why do some people choose to stay alone?  I have some thoughts on this.  1.  I think they choose to stay alone because they have trouble trusting someone.  There afraid they are going to get hurt so they put up this wall and make sure that no man or woman gets into his or her life.   2.  They don't want to answer to anyone.  If you have no one else to look after or to answer to then you can go and do some of the things that you want to do in life.  While this may be fun for a while it can also get tiring after a while.   3. They are afraid to settle down.  Committing to someone else can be exciting and yet very scary at the same time.  You are trusting this other person with your life and your heart for the rest of your life.  4.  They would rather be with who they want to be with rather than be with someone else.  Not that being with someone else wouldn't be possibly amazing but when someone finds someone of the opposite sex amazing it takes time for them to find someone else of the opposite sex amazing.  There is nothing wrong with being single, being in a relationship or being married.  Sometimes people just choose to be alone rather be with someone altogether and there is nothing wrong with this either if you choose this route.  Although being lonely can hurt too sometimes its better to be lonely for the right reasons than to be in a relationship for the wrong ones. 

Why its bad to hold back anger

Everyone at times feels angry.  I admit I do.  But have you ever known someone who holds back there anger?  Im one of those people that do.  I try to be slow to anger but I'll be honest there are times I'm just downright angry about something.  Like how something is going in my life or something.  What is worse is when you do feel angry and you hold back and then you finally let it out you take your anger out on someone else that you care about.  You don't mean to do it but for some reason whether its feeling hurt or upset  about how things are going you just get mad at them.  To those people that I've done that too I'm sorry.  I know I can't take back what I've done all I can do is hope that that person forgives me for being stupid and insensitive.   Now also on the other end you don't want to just blow up at each and every little thing.  It doesn't do you or your stomach any good.  So with anger you have to try and be slow to it. It's ok to feel angry just try and make sure that your anger doesn't go and hurt someone with words like I did to someone or hurt them physically.  When I get angry i tend to like to listen to some loud screaming music that doesn't have hardly any cussing in it.  Another thing to do is just to go into a room into the house and just start screaming really loud.  You won't believe how much better you'll feel afterwards.  Cry out to the Creator and get mad if you have to thats another thing I do.  So to all of you who feel angry I hope this article is helpful to you as writing it is very helpful to me.

The Truth VS Lies

I often hear people say I want to hear the truth.  Then when the truth is told to them they get mad.  I do see a problem sometimes though and that is what is the truth.  Each Religion has there own doctorine on what is the truth.  I feel that poses a big problem.   I do feel it is good to have something to believe in.  Another thing I hear is if you tell me the truth I won't get mad.  Then a person goes and tell the truth to that other person and they blow up like a time bomb waiting to tick.  Some people though in this country have there own version of the truth or what they think is truth.  There are places in this country where you are being lied to from but if i talk about it on here I would be arrested or killed.  Certain people want to keep other people blinded to what is the truth and they feed you a bunch of lies everyday for financial gain.  There are so many ways in this country where people are being lied to.  Not only are people being lied to but some people try to make promises to other people and then decide not to keep them. Yes the truth hurts but I would rather hear it and be hurt a little bit than to be lied to and find out later where it hurts even worse. Some people lie to other people just to make a whole lot money.  I always thought we are suppose to use money and love people instead we love money and use people.   I have no problem with making money but I feel we should stop trying to hurt others and telling a bunch of lies to achieve financial status.  It's the truth that hurts but it's the lies that really kill.  When a person is lied to over and over by the same person it becomes harder and harder to trust them or wanting to be around them.  I do think we all lie at some point in our lives but when you do it on a constant basis and become a pathological liar then you have a big problem and need to go get help.  There are many reasons that people lie though and some of those reasons are money, sex, to get drugs, to get what they want, to feel powerful, to get attention.  Is it hard to tell the truth 100 percent of the time yes.  I feel that the only time its ok to lie is in this situation I'm about to explain.  Theres someone breaking in your house you don't know and they want to know where your wife, husband or children are.  This is one of the few times where i think it is totally ok and acceptable to tell a lie.  To protect someone from someone evil is the only reason anyone should tell a lie.  I know of a lie that really ticks me off and parents will hate me for this one.  At Christmas time they tell there children that there is a Santa Claus.  What exactly are they teaching by doing that? You're teaching children that it's ok to tell lies.  I feel its better to live for the truth and be hated than it is to be loved by hundreds while being a fake and being a liar.  Each human being has to decide whether they want to live in truth or live in lie.  I thank you for reading my interesting random theories blog and I encourage you to send me your comments and thoughts on what I say on here.

Why I think certain songs are popular

I love to talk about my theories on here and while some of them might be wrong it's great to talk about them.  I want to talk today about why I think certain songs are popular.  Have you noticed that sometimes the most dumbest, ignorant moronic song is popular.  Why do you think that is?  I will tell some reasons I have for this.  First I think the radio plays a song too death until you are either forced to like it or are sick of it.  Please understand this is not a bash to the radio stations or the DJ"s who work there.  They are bascially forced to play the song and I'm sure deep down some of them have got to be sick of hear the same song over and over and over again.    I like music just as much as the next person.  I just don't like popular songs as much because of the overplay and the overkill of the song. I know of people who will play the same  songs  over and over until I don't want to hear it again for five years.  I think that's why I end up listening to classic rock or I buy christian bands that very few know.   Second I think we as the people of the world have turned off our minds to what a song is saying.  If it's got a good beat then we will listen to it.  While I'm like you in the aspect I like a good beat I like knowing what the song I'm listening to it saying.  Third if there is a special type of dance to the song that will make it popular too.  After a while I just don't even want to listen to music anymore.  I think I would rather just read a good book about how to make money on the internet or how to build a website.   So I would like to hear why you think songs are popular.  Is there any other theories you have on this that you'd like to share?  Send me your comments on this.  I thank you for reading my Interesting Random Theories blog.  

Why I Believe some people don't go to church

Ok before I explain why I believe some people don't go to church please understand that I'm not knocking or making fun of the idea or anyone that does goes.  I just want people to understand my theories on this.  Why I believe some people don't go to church comes down to these things.  1)  It seems like to me its more of a dog and pony show than it is about fellowshipping with other believers.  2)  They see things that are too much like the world in church I can relate to this one.  3)  They just don't care or believe at all.  4)  They've tried to go and tried to learn only to get rejected by others in the church.  5)  They've been bullied by others in the church.  I'm sure there are others but those five spring to mind.   I'm going to talk a little bit about the five reasons a bit.  The first one about being a dog and pony show while I do believe that people should dress nice not everyone who goes to church has hundred dollar suits or can afford it.  The second one about seeing things that are too much like the world I said I can relate to this one.  Let me explain how when I go to a church and it seems more like a social click who drives the best cars, has the best clothes or feels like junior high and high school garbage than it is about people it makes my soul and heart sad and almost super depressed.  Im not saying people need to be perfect because no one is but when it seems to be all about who has the most money I personally don't want to be there.  My third reason they don't care or believe at all.  Some people don't believe there even is a Creator but they believe in evolution I can't really say a whole lot about this one.  My fourth one they try to go to church only to get rejected by others.  I guess back when I use to go I cared too much what people thought about me but I would always try to treat people with respect and still get rejected.  My theory is if you reject me why should I even accept you when  I"m trying to love like the Creator loves his brother or sisters. I personally don't want to waste my time on anyone who thinks I'm a nobody.  The fifth and final point about being bullied in church.  I've experienced this one too.  I told this one guy at this church one time that I listen to christian rap and christian rock and he told me I was going to hell.  Im not a violent person but it was one of the few times I almost felt like striking someone in the Creator's house.  Another comment that lingered in the back of my mind when he told me that was if I'm going to hell I'll have a seat waiting for you thats warm.  So that is the five reasons off the top of my head why some people don't go to church.  I even just now thought of a sixth one which is this.  It seems to me the hearts of so many people just aren't lined up with the truth.   I admit my heart may not always be right but I feel it takes a bigger man or woman to admit that.  I want to see people in the church start being honest and stop being so self righteous.  Please understand I don't think everyone who goes to church is but to me the ones that are ruin it for me.  There is a scripture that says guard your heart for it is the well spring of life.  I personally don't want to act or become like a self righteous person.  While I may think I'm right alot I'm righteous enough to admit that I'm not right all the time.  So I would love to hear your comments on this.  Do you have any of your own theories why some people don't go to church?  I encourage you to share.  Thank you for reading my Interesting Random Theories Blog.

Is Osama Bin Laden Really Dead

The Media has been saying that Osama Bin Laden is really dead.  I wonder if he really is dead.  I don't sometimes trust what the media says.  I feel too that his death was convient a year before Obama's relection.  I have trouble really believing it just because all the news channels say it.  Im like some people when it comes to believing that there is a Creator of the universe I need to actually see it to believe it.  Something about this to me smells of convience.  I'm thinking that maybe certain people who killed him knew where he really was all along.  It's not that he possibly has died but its the fact the timing of it that smells dirty to me.  I'm not saying that I'm right about all of this either but it smells of a political agenda of some sort.  Did they really get Osama Bin Laden or someone that looks like him?   I would like to hear what you think about this.  Does this seem like a political cover up of some sort?  I encourage you to share your comments on this.  I may be opening up a can of worms by talking about this but I have been thinking about this at times the last few days.  If you think I'm right tell me why.  If you think I'm wrong tell me why.  Again something about this doesn't seem right to me.